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- learning more doesn't create confidence ... [đU]
learning more doesn't create confidence ... [đU]
... but THIS does
âOnce I know more⌠then Iâll be ready.â
Thatâs the excuse we tell ourselves
But itâs a myth that keeps us stuck in a learning loop,
⌠& it quietly costs us confidence, momentum, & money
especially as entrepreneurs
If youâre the kind of marketer who second-guesses their instincts because you think you âshould know moreââŚ
This is for you.
Itâs not that we âdonât know enoughâ
Weâre stuck because we donât trust what we already know
Even though our brainâs been filtering good & bad marketing for years
Like the exact second your brain checked out of an ad this morning âŚ
before you even knew why
Not because youâre the marketing expert.
& not because you study every-single framework.
Even companies with BIG teams, budgets, & reputations run ads that are:
â confusing,
â vague,
â & even straight-up broken.
Every unclear ad doesnât just waste your time & money
It trains your audience not to trust you next time.
So instead of trying to know more before you startâŚ
Letâs practice paying attention.
Every ad you scroll past.
Each headline you ignore.
All the offers that make you pause (wanting to buy or roll your eyes)
This isnât about dissing bad ads
Weâre training your instincts & applying things youâre learning about
â in this newsletter
â from programs youâre taking
â through books youâre reading
Itâs not about knowing all the answers.
Itâs about knowing what to look for
& asking better questions.
Letâs apply this in an ad breakdown âŚ
I had a client who had a brilliant idea for a business & community
& they were 1,000% invested in it
On the surface, they were doing everything right
The problems were behind closed doors.
The team culture wasnât 1 where you felt comfortable asking questions.
You had to stay in your own lane
Even when you (& others) knew you could help
That proved to be the downfall.
Sure, there was an investment in marketing & advertising

While I canât show you my clientâs ads, the ones below show a lot of the same mistakes.
& while I donât know what happens in this business
my experience tells me theyâre making many of the same mistakes
just with bigger budgets
Letâs start with the elephant in the room âŚ
Would you click on an ad for to a âfree 60-minute sessionâ?
Seriously, just because theyâre not actually calling it a âwebinarâ doesnât mean that isnât what it is.
âorganizations worldwideâ âŚ. could that be any more vague?
â how big?
â what industries? or maybe which departments?
â who in these âorganizations worldwideâ should be watching this?
â & whatâs the benefit of âfaster & cleaner commsâ?
Letâs assume this does sound like a good way to spend an hour & you clickedâŚ
Todayâs date is January 7th 2026
The âfree 60-minute sessionâ on the landing page shows last month/year.
Theyâre still running (& paying for) ads for something thatâs already happened.
Adding insult to injury âŚ
â Thereâs no replay option on the landing page
(Iâm assuming they forgot to update it ⌠worse if they didnât think to do that at all)
This made me literally laugh out loud âŚ
â âCan't join in December? Stay tuned for upcoming sessions.â
Thereâs no obvious way to sign up to âstay tunedâ.
They do have something buried in the navigation bar along the top
But it took a hot minute to find it in all that clutter
& the only reason I did that was for this review.
Imagine the difference in impact (& conversion) with a clear date, a replay promise, & one line telling you exactly who this is for.
What else do you see wrong with the ad & landing page?
The framework thousands of teams use daily
Organizations worldwide are adopting Smart Brevity to move faster with clearer comms. This free 60-minute session shows you how the methodology works and how to start applying it immediately.
When you break down an ad, youâre really asking at least 3 things:
â Whatâs clear (& unclear)?
â What promises (or assumptions) are being made?
â Whereâs trust being built (or lost)?
Every unclear ad doesnât just waste your time & money
It trains your audience not to trust you next time.
That proved fatal for my client.
They would only listen to the outside âexpertâ brought in to buy ad space
& because I was working on retention, thatâs the only lane I could talk about
Getting your message in front of âmillionsâ sounds great.
But itâs about quality over quantity.
My 1st client made that same mistake just before I started working with him.
He was a musician who left the record label.
so he needed to do his own marketing
Like my other client, he was promised âmillionsâ of views / impressions
& they delivered on their promise
But they werenât the ârightâ people.
Letâs look at another ad for the same company âŚ
This 2nd ad is about as vague as the 1st
⌠at least thereâs no hour-long webinar
6 resources for 1 skill ⌠used forever?
Letâs say it makes me curious âŚ
â What does that have to do with âSmart Brevityâ?
â & how does that tie into âAxiosâ?
âdesigned to make every message memorable, clear, and impossible to ignoreâ
Maybe they should have used that for this ad because
â itâs clear as mud
â not memorable (unless you count memorably bad)
â I personally couldnât ignore it but only because it shines a spotlight on the problem
& if you thought the ad was a head-scratcher, wait until you see THIS landing page!
Because thereâs an awareness & benefit problem
When the message skips awareness, clarity collapses ⌠no matter how strong the brand is.
Six resources. One skill you'll use forever
Smart Brevity is the methodology behind Axios â designed to make every message memorable, clear, and impossible to ignore. Our free toolkit includes the checklist, workbooks, and frameworks to start using it today.
Consider this:
â thereâs a team of people working on these ads (graphic design, copywriting, web page development, media buying, etc)
â someone whoâs a âmarketing expertâ came up with the ideas & signed off on running these ads
A lot of time & money went into the advertising
Not to mention more time & money in creating the webinar & toolkit
It seems theyâre clueless in terms of the audienceâs Levels of Awareness
Thereâs no clear understanding of using Features vs Benefits
& even though the eventâs over, theyâre still âpaying for itâ in more ways than 1
Because not only can you NOT access the information theyâre promoting
theyâre losing whatever level of âtrustâ that person may have had in thinking this company can help them.
Yes ⌠Iâve done things like this before (& still catch myself doing it)
When youâre juggling everything as a solopreneur, clarity quietly slips away
& you donât notice it until someone else points it out ⌠or worse, stops trusting you
Whatâs something you would change - or at least point out - that can help this company with a message thatâs âmemorable, clear, and impossible to ignoreâ for all the right reasons?
your turn âŚ
This week, I want you to try something different.
Donât scroll past ads.
Study them.
Itâs time to stop trying to know-it-all before you get started.
While other people are moaning & groaning about having to scroll past âtoo many adsâ
Take some time to look at what other people are doing.
Whatâs working?
& more importantly, what isnât?
How can you learn from their mistakes?
Every time you break down an ad like this, youâre doing something powerful.
Youâre training your eye.
Not to criticize or copy.
But to understand why something works ⌠or doesnât.
Thatâs how you build confidence:
â not by memorizing tactics or rules
â not by trying to know everything
â but by learning to trust your own observations
If âexpertsâ with teams, budgets, & credentials miss the basics like clarity, accuracy, & audience fit, you donât have to wait any longer to start.
That includes being willing to share your opinion
Confidence doesnât come from knowing âeverythingâ
It comes from noticing âŚ
being willing to ask for (& listen to) others
then acting on it âŚ
Then look at your own marketing through the same lens.
Share what youâre seeing as it relates to your audience.
You donât just get content out of it
It shows people you âgetâ them.
THAT is real marketing.
Now how can you apply that to your own marketing?
What can you do so things are clear instead of confusing?
Make it a great âconfidence-buildingâ week!
EG
PS: When youâre ready, schedule a call to talk through 1 of your own marketing pieces to see how having that 2nd set of eyes can help ⌠& to learn to hear more than 1 opinion.


