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You're "too busy" killing your business ... [šU]
This 4-part fix stops your sabotage
A million & 1 things are screaming for attention every day
Theyāre not all urgent
Most arenāt even important
& thatās the real problem with time management
It isnāt time
Weāre confusing āspending timeā with āinvesting itā
& weāre experts at fooling ourselves into thinking weāre investing when weāre really spending ⦠or worse ⦠wasting time.
The excuse flags we love wavingā¦
Letās start with:
āIām too busyā
āI didnāt get to itā
āI forgotā
āI lost track of timeā
& sprinkle in a little bit of:
āI ran out of timeā
āI couldnāt finishā
āIt needs more research / another editā
We all say at least 1 (usually more) of these
But the real question isnāt whether youāre busyā¦
itās whether that busyness is paying off.

If youāre ātoo busyā & itās not because youāre overwhelmed delivering your product/service to clientsā¦
Chances are you have 1 (or all) of these problems:
ā focusing on the wrong things
ā letting others steal your time
ā doing the ārightā things at the āwrongā time
āyeah butā
Before we start waving the excuse flags again, letās talk about whatās really going on & where time keeps slipping through our fingers
ā focusing on the wrong things
Whatās your offer?
free or paid (preferably both) ⦠what is it?
If you donāt have an answer, youāre focusing on the wrong thing.
āyeah but I need a websiteā
ā Without an offer, what goes on it?
āyeah but I need to learn how to use (_insert any email or social media platform_)ā
ā If you donāt have an offer, what content will you use for it?
āyeah but I need to finish learning / reading / watching ___ā
ā If you donāt have an offer, how do you it helps?
See where Iām going with this?
Youāre putting the cart before the horse.

You need an offer ⦠a product / service / package / something
& you need to know who (specifically) needs it (free or paid)
so your what / how / where benefits them.
& until you have that, nothing else matters
because itās not going to you move forward today
Youāll have a lot of motion without momentum.

Remember that something is better than nothing
& done is better than perfect
So ā¦
Priority #1: Whatās your offer?
Now that you have an offer ā¦
The only thing that matters is putting it in front of people.
That means leads!
If youāre ātoo busyā doing things & arenāt talking to (& growing) your contact list,
youāre focused on the wrong thing
& the best place to start is with people you know
āyeah but I donāt know anyoneā
ā how many contacts do you have in your phone?
ā how many friends (& connections & followers) do you have on social media?
ā how many contacts do you have in your email addresses (past & present)?
āyeah but theyāre not going to need my helpā
Not everyone you know (or talk to) in your network becomes your client
(& for me, so far, no oneās become a client)
But ⦠& itās a big butā¦
All of my clients have come from referrals
All except 2 that found me on Linkedin, which is still networking!
Itās like the 80ās commercial for Faberge Organic Shampoo
āI got this shampoo ⦠& told 2 friends ⦠& they told 2 friends ⦠& so on ⦠& so on
Thatās the power of networking
The people you know may not need your offer
But you donāt know who they know (or know about)
or who those people know (or know about)
or who those people know (or know about)
⦠& so on
⦠& so on

I donāt know Taylor Swift ⦠but I know someone who does.
I donāt know King Charles ⦠but I know someone who knows someone.
Your network knows someone several potential clients.
Priority #2: Putting people on (& talking to) your personal & social contact list
Focusing on those 2 things (offers & leads) in that order scales back on ābusynessā
Thatās what you needā¦
Now letās look at how you make that happen ā¦
Youāre making to-do lists & blocking time on your calendar
You know what you gotta do
But things still arenāt getting done
Because ālife happensā
Sometimes it does.
Yesterday I lost my 15 ½ year old dog, Connor
The day before that was the 1-year anniversary of Mamma Miaās passing

The week before that I had an accident that left me with 3rd degree burns on my thigh
Yes, life happens
& we get hit with things we canāt control
But theyāre exceptions, not the rule
Truth is, more often than not, weāre relinquishing our power
ā letting others steal your time
Where is your attention going during the day?
Can you list everything youāve done & how long you spent on it?
Try it on your yesterday.
What did you do?
How much time?
Now compare it to what you wanted to do & the time you wanted to spend on it.
Time Vampires
In the book, No B.S. Time Management for Entrepreneurs by Dan Kennedy, Time Vampires are people sucking the life out of your day & leaving you feeling drained.
That totally applies to non-people-related things too.
ā social media
ā email
ā the news
ā pets
Set & Honor Your Boundaries
Dan Kennedy will hang up on you mid-sentence if you go over your allotted time, especially if you show up late to a meeting ⦠even if the meeting is to sell his own stuff!
Iāve sat in on calls where heās done it
That doesnāt mean you should hang up on people, but you can start setting boundaries
ā clients do NOT get my phone number
ā I donāt have WhatsApp
ā a free Zoom hangs up for you after 40 minutes ⦠thatās still 30% more time than scheduled for a half-hour call
When Iām in my office, Iām in work mode.
If itās not work-related, itās not happening.
Mamma Mia learned that the hard way.
My office was under her kitchen.
She was legally blind, hard of hearing, & walked with canes ⦠which she also used to bang on the floor to call for me.
The problem was that her banging was more want than need.
& they all carried the same urgency, until we created a scale.
āchange the channel on the TVā
āfill da water bottle & put by da plant so I can water demā
There were days I had more of a workout than work done.
We found a new system that worked for both of us.
The faster & harder she banged, the more urgent it was
Think about it ā¦
If you were at an office working for someone else (instead of at home working for yourself), would that same interruption happen?
We need boundaries.
Especially when we work from home.
Priority #3: Identify whoās banging on your ceiling & set up an urgency scale

the point isnāt just keeping people out.
Itās about creating space where you can actually do work that matters.
& that leads to the next challenge ā¦
Not all hours are created equal.
ā doing the ārightā things at the āwrongā times
Your time is your own, & nothing short of a medical emergency or natural disaster will distract you.
But if youāre a night-person instead of a card-carrying member of the 5-am club, all that planning, prioritizing, & protecting is going to backfire ⦠badly
I fall into the 5-am club.
Most days I wake up without an alarm
& thatās when Iām most productive.
I read books & exercise my brain.
But if I try to do that in the afternoons or evening,
Iāll re-read the same paragraph or stare at a blank screen for an hour ā¦
assuming I donāt doze off.
I have clients who are the opposite.
Theyāll send emails in the middle of the night
I had 2 hit my inbox before 4am today


Thatās the beauty of email over text messages, WhatsApp, & phone calls.
You work on your time.
Iāll work on my time.
As long as thereās a bit of overlap, itās going to be a win-win
The key is knowing what time works for you!
If youāre not sure, try different times.
Give it a week or 2 so you can see if it āsticksā
Doesnāt work?
Try another time for a few weeks.
There will be exceptions.
Find the āruleā that works for you.
Priority #4: Find the best time, instead of āanyā time.
Thatās it ⦠seems like a lot because of all the reading.
But itās just 4 things.
Letās recap,
Build your offer
Generate leads
Protect your time with boundaries
& do the right things at your right time
Create the space & system to focus
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A few talk to ChatGPT
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Bottom line ⦠nothingās ever going to be perfect.
My day rarely, if ever ⦠OK NEVER ⦠goes exactly as planned,
even with all the guardrails I put up.
Some days are great ⦠others suck.
But weāve got to be honest with ourselves about what happened.
āI let myself get sucked into Netflixā
āI procrastinated by spring cleaning the house in January.ā
Celebrate what worked
Acknowledge what didnāt
Learn from both
& focus on what matters most right now:
ā build your offer
ā generate leads
ā protect your time with boundaries
ā do the right things at your right time
Thatās it.
just 4 things.
Connor reminded me of that yesterday.
Mamma Mia taught me with every tap of her cane.
Life interrupts.
Sometimes in heartbreaking ways
& sometimes theyāre little taps that pull us away.
ā offer ā leads ā boundaries ā timing
Get those 4 right & ātoo busyā starts looking a whole lot more like āprofitableā
Everything else?
Noise.
Be honest about where your hours go & bold enough to protect them
Your week wonāt just feel different
It pays different.
So ⦠where do you focus first?
Hit reply & tell me.
Iāll send you free resources that get you moving.
Because the sooner you invest your time, the faster it pays.
Make it a great ātime-investedā week!
EG
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